Your a great help!! I will research just that. Also knowing how revengeful STBX is he will prolly make me pay for any penalties.
We prolly dont have much equity since we've only had the house for 4 years. And H wants to sell for only what he owes and not make any of off it.He does want our plumbing loan to be paid off any gains, so I doubt I will get any $.
I emailed him to ask for his realtors name and # so I can go sign the listing papers and he hasnt replied. Hmmmm not in so much of a hurry are we to sell? Either way I will be starting to pack up stuff this weekend(if possible w/ my daughter's bday party sleepover..ugh a house full of my 3 girls and somemore girls!