Don't be so hard on yourself regarding the snooping. Yes it is against DBing principles but when you have infromation staring you in the face, it is not the easiest thing to look the other way. I know, trust me. What is important I think is that you did not throw the infromation or evidence you gathered in your H's face. Yes you hinted at it but in my book (the book of the real world) you showed amazing restraint. Something i learned a while back....regardless of what our WAW spouses do, if you love them unconditionally then you need to get over this little episode and move on. It hurts when we find out our spouses have not been completely honest but if you are committed to making this work, this is only a bump in the road.
