Last night was the best night we've had in 4 months. WAW initiated a number of conversations that she didn't have to start. She actually made a couple of jokes that we laughed at. All in all a nice evening, although it wasn't "normal" by any stretch of the imagination. More baby steps!

I'm not getting my hopes up and am continuing with the loving detachment, GAL etc. Seems to be working and I'm going to keep it up. Tonight DS15 and I are going to have sushi with a couple of my friends. I told WAW we were going to do that and she almost seemed disappointed that we didn't even consider asking her if she wanted to go or not, but hey, this is what she wants right?


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.