Here’s another dilemma. MC seems to be going no were right now. When I see C solo she agrees that my W is wrapped in a victim mentality and needs to get over that if we are ever going to move forward. But when we couple C she lets my W spew at me for 45 mins and then looks at me and asks how I feel about that. I can only say “ I’m sorry you feel that way. I see the consequences of my actions are long reaching” so many different ways. The other problem is my W looks for any sigh to be mad so im scared to cancel our current counselor. I was thinking about saying something to the effect that since I am seeing the current counselor for my anger management ( witch I’m glad to say the C says its more frustration management, as she doesn’t see a anger problem) that we see someone else so we don’t get a biased view. But W seems to want to look for any reason not to go as it is.
