sometimes overanalyzing doesn't get us anywhere. I feel I need to keep the balance between emotions and brains. When I try to use my logic to nail down what I am looking for, even if I come up to something, it never feels quiet/just right in the end. I do get now that in a R/M you can not/shouldn't let either one (logic/emotions) "sleep" for too long. Forgiveness: You've tried to break it down, to analyse it (you did), to explain, find the pre-requisities, hear others oppinion, listen to your heart, rationalise it... I am glad you felt it was enough (thinking)... IMO you came to a conclusion that -at least- gets the burden off you right now..
FG, I asked "who is this guy" with admiration, not in a bad sense, I hope you didn't misunderstand me. I like the way you "type", as you put it, and it makes me wonder how many things you are thinking, that you actually "miss" by typing. I understand most of the time what you guys are talking about. It's sometimes when you use so many phrases in one sentence I just have never heard of, that I can't keep up. (But I would never interrupt a "discussion" with questions about English, I am filling in the blanks, hopefully not completely wrong...).
