Good news that your d and h had a good evening as Dad and daughter. I would caution you not to read ANYthing other than that out of this.
You have been up and down such a lot lately and I would hate for you to start seeing more to this than it was,
You posted you are starting a financial separartion - H is asking about your jobs/work amongst other things--maybe I just have a suspicious mind-maybe he is just interested about your life and is hoping you have moved on without him.
Acept it for what it was and try to avoid seeing more to it than that.
God news whatever his motives tho.