Sandi, thanks for giving me your insight. It does help. I've actually read your thread because I found it interesting to get the perspective of the WAS. I've stopped the snooping but this is something H won't let go of. The snooping was only hurting me and it did make things worse. I know I have to give H time to heal as well.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz