Well, he said he wants time to reflect on your history, where he wants to go, who he wants to become. He doesn't want to hurt you or S. So hopefully if he gets into counseling he can learn how to be a better H and father. Wouldn't that be great?
And I understand the anger over your snooping. I found out my H hadn't ended the A when he said he did by finding a phone in our BED that I didn't know he had. I read all the 200 text messages in it confirming he was still planning to leave me (he isn't anymore). But when I confronted him, HE was the wounded party who couldn't trust ME b/c I violated his privacy? The people on here have confirmed for me it was wrong to snoop, but still I feel the H's who are screwing things up have enough wrong not to judge us for finding out the truth....
Anyway over all the message he gave you seemed okay to me. He seems to want to grow and change. And if you want a future with him he probably needs to do that, doesn't he??
