No one to turn to- 2

[addie]

H emailed me this afternoon and I would love feedback from others.

H wrote:
While there are still things between us I cannot get passed I do not think that you are an ogre or a bad person. I hope you don't think that I am. However, I need alot of time to reflect on our history and where I want to go and the person I want to become. Of course, the biggest loser in this (besides us both) is S. In no way have I done things intentionally to hurt you or S. I hope you know that. And I hope that we can be civil towards each other when we are together. Of course it is difficult and a major transition being alone. And I do respect the fact that you continue to take care of S.


These are the same things he keeps bringing up. What he can't get past is my snooping into his email re OW and invading his privacy - he's mentioned this many times before. He keeps repeating that he didn't intentionally want to hurt me or S and that he hopes I don't think he's a bad person. He brought it up just this past Sunday, a few times previously and now again.

Does anyone see any positives in what he wrote? I'd really appreciate some feedback.