Thanks Tomato! I am officially throwing away the account info. I got from BIL. I promised I would never look in H's phone again, and I just really feel strongly that I won't. But to make sure I don't "online snoop" again, I am ridding myself of the temptation.
I knew I shouldn't have done it even as I was typing in the password. The reason I will never look in H's phone again is it hurt too much to know what I found out....even if you can't read the actual messages on a phone bill, it still sucks to get that information. So no more looking. Period. I'll pray on it tonight so God helps me keep my word.
And unless H files for a D (WHICH HAS NEVER BEEN SUGGESTED :)) I will NEVER tell him that I snooped, either. Would do more harm than good.
Going to act "as if" H is busy getting himself together and I am doing the same, so we can wind up together in a happier, more successful M a few months down the line.....which I hope is what we ARE doing....
Okay if I go hit myself with a couple dozen 2x4s--we have them on hand since we are remodeling --maybe you all won't beat me too badly??
--maybe you all won't beat me too badly??
