Well, this is where my patience and faith in God is tested.
He knows where he wants to be but just can't quite make it here.
Still in the does not want to hurt OW frame of mind even though he knows all of us over here have suffered as well.
He said she is feeling lots of turmoil whatever that means. He says she pretty much knows he wants to be with me. I am sure she will try laying some guilt trip on him but so be it.
She can pressure him and nag him and I am just going to sit back and watch it all unfold.
Still he was so complimentary toward me telling me I did the best I could and said I was a great mother and so on. He also thanked me for sticking it out and said he felt blessed to have me as his wife.
He is talking like he has never talked before which amazes me.
We are on week four of these talks so we shall see how they progress.
He does admit how much better he feels after he talks to me because he always thinks the talks will not go as well as they have been going.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19