I was simply stating my feelings? Am I not allowed? Am I wrong?
Are you not happy? I thought you were. I wished you nothing but the best in your relationship. Still do.
I said I was trying to understand how things change so quickly?
We are told time and time again that when you go into a relationship with a MARRIED individual that they are nothing but band-aides. Right or wrong? Tell me, hell, I am willing to listen. Explain to me the difference. Thats all I am asking. Why is it that others are band-aides, but yours is different?.
You see, in my way of thinking.....no matter how in love you both are, and I'm glad you are, there is not much difference between you two and say.....my xh and his x ow. I cannot speak for anyone else on this board, just for myself, but my x thought the same thing at this stage! So did his friends and family. If I were or anyone else standing with a OW/OM in the picture, then hell.....maybe they do love the other person and we are simply wasting our time and our spouses are finding their healing.
Yes it hurts. But I'm not hateful, vindictive or spiteful. I am just learning about how the world turns and how things can be justified to fit the action.
Bill....I have nothing against you nor you love. Hell, I read the boards, ya'll have proclaimed your love. Great! She's defended you! Wonderful! I believe in happily ever after...
I'm just looking for answers.
I spose I'll have to settle for, hey....the marriage just wasn't meant to be and when the LBS hears the ILYBNILWY speach it's true. The grass is greener. The children will be happier and the LBS will find love again.
I have not said anything in my post that you or the other person have not said themselves. Why so defensive? There is no need to defend if nothing was wronged right? I am not attacking Bill, just looking for answers.
I'm glad your a stubborn cuss!!! So am I. SO why in the world would you want to leave the board!
Geeez......
I said I didn't understand the difference is all.
Yikes! Touchy...
Hugs and understanding
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
