PMA = Me

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I did talk with them. It was very helpful right at first. It confirmed what I was doing was right and gave me some good advice. I had a male counselor. For my last session, because I was in a hurry and because I thought it might help, I asked for a female C. She was even better. They give good advice, very detailed, as to what you should do and say, what words to use, etc.

I would recommend them. Although, I got tons of help on these boards. I hope to heaven that I can repay Grasshopper and ToughLover by passing on some good advice to others.

In trying to think of what to say to you, I put myself back in that spot, wife with OM, not knowing what will happen, feeling rejected, out of control, scared - and it's scary. I'm proof that you can survive, over come, grow, find strength, and even restore your M.

Good luck.