My thread is over in I need help for my marital problems but I though I would ask this here for advice. I found out my wife has been in a serious EA and just found out a PA. for 6 months she has lied denied and bascially made it all out to be me.I have phone records and she was the first person he called last week when he had his second child. He is married and we were all good friends, he denies there was anyhting going on and now won't answer any of my calls. So Do I contact his wife and tel her this ? Will she believe me? how do I handle this? Is there a way to navigate this and still have any hope of reconciling? thanks