My last thread was about some of my friends that were having problems in their lives.
The first was my BF with the unruly D16. Seems that my BF finally had enough of her D16's bad behavior and got her help. She spent many days in a psychiatric hospital and then was there during the day but got to go home at night. She sees a T several times a week and it's helping her, according to my BF. Yay, BF!!!!
My second friend is the one I tease about being a "people pleaser." She runs herself into the ground doing for everyone else to the point that she ends up hospitalized. It seems that she's drawing the line in regards to a couple of people that she now realizes take advantage of her. She told me that doing this was one of the hardest things she's ever had to do. I'm so proud of her for this!!! This woman is one of the best people I've ever known.
My third friend is the one who has always picked lousy men. She told me that she'd been out with a good friend of mine and asked me if I thought he was a good guy. I was honest with her and told her that "yes, he is a good guy, unless you date him." He's a good friend, good father, good boss, etc. He is not a good H or BF. Even, he will admit to this. Anyway, she called me today and told me that I was right. She's decided to let him know that she isn't interested in dating him. Whew!!! She just got out of a very bad R and needs to just chill out before getting involved with anyone else for awhile.
I love my friends and just want them to be happy and stress free if possible. It upsets me when they're taken advantage of or hurt. I know that everything and everyone isn't perfect but we can certainly eliminate some of the crap/drama that we all allow into our lives. I eliminated a couple hundred lbs a few yrs ago!!!
