The answers are unclear. I will admit like I said earlier, she hated infidelity, and never had any trust issues there until the M went downhill. She felt I didnt want her anymore, and found someone who did the initating....hence the A.
Now, I do believe her that she wouldnt cheat again, since she has confessed how this has changed her life. But when she has no OM, lok out...its not pretty.