You may want to consider meditation. It worked for me...in fact, I have gotten away from that and I think I need to get back into it. It helps keep you focused.
Keep on keeping on...you are doing okay. Weight loss is normal...I lost 20 pounds...it came back with a vengeance!
Anyhow, I am rooting for you...
Vali
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller