Ok.. I tried to read it but there were no high points.
Best I could gather she filed for divorce. You have the kids. You are at the 1 year mark it could be done at any time.
I want you to just post where you are right now. Quick synopsis. Let the emotions fly. No big words. Try not to make it pretty. If you have to make a new thread. I hate the thread lock here it makes it really hard to follow. You have been given too much info... Thread locked.
Remember I am used to porn threads.... they go on and on and on and well you get what I am saying.
Let it fly.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.