I don't want D3 to grow up with that. I don't want to worry if I'll set him off even more
Sue, in the past 2 days, H has made D3 cry a lot. It breaks my heart (and his, when he comes out of his anger fog). He will tell her too sternly what to do, she will say "Ok" and walk out of the room, and H will find her crying. She even said today "You hurt my feelings, that's rude to me". I know our (H and mine) day was tense together and this is why this happened. My patience with the kids wears thinner than normal when I am stressed about H, and I am hoping more space from each other heals this for both of us. I don't voice my disapproval to H, he can see the hurt in my face when the girls are upset. He knows what he is doing. We just need to face the music and step up for the kids more.
