Thanks Snodderly,

I do feel stronger....and right now I am so annoyed with H that distance is good. When he left, financially, everything was up to date. After he left....we are behind on everything and I am so tired of it.

H just called about the property taxes. He asked if I had been paying them.I told him I have been paying the school taxes and that was it. Not the county tax. He knew this already. He asked if I got a letter from an attorney and I told him I hadn't. He then said..ok thanks.

I don't understand how these men can walk away and not expect consequences for their actions. I barely have enough money to feed the kids some weeks, I rely too much on my dad for help financially, and this is one bill he is going to have to deal with. He is getting a tax return...he can pay this.

Anyway, sorry to vent but it is so totally out of control. I wish he would realize that the decision he has made has had such a snowball affect on everything. From the kids to the finances to everything. He made this mess.....

UGH
Mopsey