Wow, 9 months without work, I was going stir crazy the last month after surgery. I can only watch Jerry so many times before I go crazy, LOL. What does he do? I think it definitely helped , you not nagging about not working or no support money. If you had I think you would have driven H farther away, wouldn't be at this point where it looks like he wants to come back.
When I talked to Jodie, she asked what would happen if W wanted to recommit. I said she wouldn't move in right away, that I would want to date for 2 or 3 months. She said that is what she would recommend. Have you given that some thought? H has said he wants to be a family again and wonders what hoops he will have to jump through, it sounds like he's close to reconciling. Maybe look at some posts in piecing to get ideas on how to proceed.
What was wrong with your knee that you couldn't run? One thing my W said was she had no interests or hobbies, she said it would be fun to run a marathon. She's not very athletic. I told her I don't know of too many people who would call it fun, an accomplishment, yes. I said I would train with her and do a 5k race. My cousin used to go out west and run in 100 mile races, what a glutton for punishment! I think with my rehab I'm in tne best shape for reffing to start the season than I have ever been. They yell at me in rehab say I'm working too hard. I get there early and try to get at least 10 miles on the bikes. Only have two more visits left, I need to call Ins. co to see if they will cover more or maybe a gym membership or stationary bike.
I'm going to see if my best friend will want to toss a few back this weekend also. Don't get too wild and crazy!!
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26
