I hear ya on the sick thing. Before Florida when I was so sick, H didn't ask ONCE about me. Not once. Like you, D3 and D6 took better care of me than H. They are detached, they can't care. But, I don't know about your H, my H has never been sympathetic to sick people.
Its hard to learn all that stuff about OW and your H. Believe me, I heard tons of future plans that OW and my H had. They all hurt. But we are doing the best we can.
PS: I care. I would bring you water and tissues and even say "Bless you" when you sneeze. I would snatch up your cute D3 in her dress, and take her to play with my girls so you can sleep and rest. HUGS!
