IMHO, don't think too much about MLC. She's not nearly as crazy as what I've read over there. This is as good as place as any for you to post. SOME people on the MLC thread forget that it doesn't matter if it's MLC, an affair or anything else. You still got to do the right steps. GAL, PMA, don't initiate R talk, all that good stuff.
Man, that's good and simple - do what works, stop doing what doesn't. Harder to put into practive, but you can do it MM.
I talked to 2 different DB coaches. I got some good advice. I recommend you listen to her and really try to do what she says.
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread