Hey Mink, just popped in, I'll read and catch up soon, but...
Dude, don't do this to shock her. Do it for you. Believe it. Believe that you can move on. Really drop the rope.
You are 100% right. It wouldn't be satisfying if she stayed with you while she was not in love with you. It wouldn't be satisfying if you tricked her, or shocked her, into being with you.
When she comes back, when she can say ILY to your face and really mean it, you will feel so elated, you'll know that it's what you're really hoping for. But you can't get there until you really drop the rope.
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread
