Mopsey,
Each and every time you post, I see you getting stronger and coming to the understanding that your life centers around your children and you and not him and his crisis.

He's going to have ups and downs, which is something you can't control, nor can his therapist. These are the issues that he's got to face, accept and come to the realization that no one, and I do mean, no can fix for him, but himself. As for his job situation, he has to determine which position will make him happy and if he's not happy with one or the other, to find something that will make him happy. He knows that he needs to get a "real" job and he's projecting his thoughts on to you and everyone else. Once again, he's pointing the finger at everyone else and not looking at himself. I thought your comments on this were very good.

You've got a busy few weeks coming up with birthdays. I'm sure you'll have some nice get togethers planned for the kids. Enjoy those special days, take plenty of photos and know that you are a very special lady.

Enjoy the rest of your week.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.