The Suggestion Box

[Jeanette1120]

Wow RCR.....thats some post! It takes me the longest to read them. They are very very good and very very helpful, especially when they are directed towards someone in need of transforming their marriage.

Your suggestion box is nice also. I believe I saw that SG was making a new area for the "Stickies". Gosh, but I am ever so glad that I did not start a Solution Journal. Jeeeez, I would feel LIKE CRAP everytime I posted on one as it would make me feel NOT WANTED! Hmmm....thoughts to ponder on exactly who this is all hurting, not helping.

Solution Journals: Can we try putting these in their own folder?
But regardless, let's give them a chance!

BUT REGARDLESS LETS GIVE THEM A CHANCE???? Holy HELL...hey, why don't we just put those loving thoughtful wanting to save their marriage people in a friggen CAVE all by themselves. And we all know about those caves right? NOT!

I'm gonna have to go with IMP on this one RCR, as much as I love reading your posts and they have helped me tremendously as I'm sure they have others this is not YOUR website, it belongs to MWD and we are her valued GUESTS.

I too also hope that AmyC did not SACRAFICE herself for the sake of you and uhm others.

First, I regret to say that I feel sgctxok should not moderate this forum. It is not my intent to discredit or insult her.

Next your going to tell us who can post and who cannot right?? Unfriggen real.....this is a power struggle between a few people so why shred this board like this?? I mean...I thought you were going to come back and be helpful posting to those in need? I also thought that perhaps this had all died down and we could begin to heal from mark this left on many people. But here we go again. Lets get rid of SG......for the love of GOD! WHY? Should this not go back to one of your suggestions to ban those people who are picking on ONE person and NICE to others????

It's so damn confusing now.....

You know what......there are so many "WHAT IF'S" in our lives right now it crazy. Now I have to add "worry about slander" "be gentle with those who need 2x'ed" for repeating the same thing until you get it? Remember practice makes perfect.

I think we all need to realize that no matter what happens here NOT EVERYONE IS GOING TO BE HAPPY. It either has to be one way or no way. We all have to learn to get along and be open minded and helpful to others.

This continuous bashing of SG is not helpful to anyone. It's hurtful. I hate to see people so "Out To Get" someone like this.

I'm wondering if this is ever going to end. Will everyone truly be happy on this site? Even if all the "Demands" are met, are we all going to be happy?? Sadly, I highly doubt it.

I am starting this thread to encourage a positive and professional dialogue where we can offer suggestions along with CONSTRUCTIVE criticism if it is needed.

Isn't that what we were doing??????? Or was it not good enough? Or are certain people not good enough? Or do we have to be HIGHLY TRAINED PROFESSIONALS WITH DEGREES who spend hours on end in the library reading in order to fit the perfect description of someone who is capable of posting a dialogue that will suit everyone.

Hell....I didn't read many books about his, I learned it all on here when things were normal. But somehow I don't think you liked it then either. But guess what? You can almost add me to the list of DIVORCE BUSTED! all without the new ideas and or suggestions of whats right or wrong. Most of us speak from experience. Experience seems to be the majority of us posters.

This site is losing it's appeal simply because of all the arguing over who is going to get the last word.

Oh...and if you put in all that you suggested. The top of this forum will be a train wreck, not just look like one.

Can't we all just get along as adults and not want to take over the world???

Much love to all.

Jeanette