I too remember you from way back in 2003 or so, in one of your earlier go rounds with your wife. She certainly seemed unstable even then.
Well, I finally nailed my ex's personality disorder to narcissism (NDP), and finally being able to understand what is going on was SUCH a relief! Not that the co-parenting problems ever cease, but you stop living on the utterly false hope that things will ever change. You can then get on with your life.
Wishing you all the best, you were a tenacious and loving soul, as I recall, but an innocent like many of us, in the big bad world.
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates