Hi...found this thread through a post over in piecing...my h has not touched me for over a year...we seperated last Nov..but still had not touched since last March...sad that I know exactly the last time we had sex. There are issues to deal with in our m other than just no sex..isn't that probably the problem with most? I don't have any advice for you...if your w and you are together and she wants to work on your m..that is a huge step and hopefully the intimate part will come with time. It is a wild journey..and yes I would love for my h to ravish me right at the sink doing dishes. He used to do the touching thing and I think I took it for granted...

Sue