Seek, isn't strange, you have a strong relatioship with someone ie. marriage or pre-marriage and something happens. Suddenly you have no idea what to do, where to go. I learn from reading the articles on this web site, I get more from my counselor and from ladies at work. I don't know if its a guy thing mostly or what but I feel so lost. When the engagement was broken off she needed space. I was going out of my mind because we had been so close and I could not figure out where my place was without causing some sort or irritation. I took about a week or so to finally figure out my place which was when I really started seeng the counselor. Hurt and broken trust is something that is really different for me because its usually being done to me and in this case my actions caused the hurt. So have had to learn a lot to get to where I am now. I still love her very much and I still have my woe is me moments when I think about her as something other than my wife or a really close friend. This is not easy by any means but a real pleasure when you see two people work out a problem and restore the relationship.
