I just remembered something from a very long time ago that relates to all this.
I was a little boy and had a crush on the pretty girl next door (you fellows, know what I'm talking about). We actually became good friends and spent a lot of time together. One day in her clubhouse we began playing a bit of "doctor" (and you thought they were just for tea parties!). She said she'd show me hers if I showed her mine. I agreed, with the stipulation that she went first. She was fine with that and I got my first real look at one of the treasures of life. When it was my turn I refused even though I was dying to show her. I had been expecting her to insist. She didn't. She just shrugged her shoulders and we went on to play tea party instead of doctor.
Maybe when we play hard-to-get we don't get got at all.
