W won't drive in snow (and we used to live in Anchorage!) It's become a phobia for her. She'll barely drive at all. I had to drive the entire way out East and back, and we have a cat, so we can't fly.
W quit 2 jobs back East (and now blames me for one of those because of my whining - some of which is true - I admit my depression was bad and I did a lot of complaining), and just can't decide where exactly we can live - we tried MA, then NY, then she wanted to stay in every city we passed coming back to CO. In the last 10 yrs she's had numerous jobs, but I've never had the luxury of just quitting when times where tough. I've had to support us and spent all my efforts trying to get us out of debt. Yes, I should have taken her on trips back East and stuff over the years. That might have helped.
She gained back a lot of weight that she had lost (losing weight and getting in shape together was one of the good things about our relationship a couple of years ago). Now she blames me for that (again, because of my East-coast meltdown).
When moving back here 1st came up she was only for it because she couldn't find work, and we weren't on a bus route for her to avoid that driving phobia I mentioned. Then, after the holidays, some places called so now she's sure she'd have had a good job by now. Maybe, maybe not. No way to tell now!
