Have you ever "ravaged" your wife, out of the blue, with no "ceremony", no "ritual" involved?
Just let passion take over, with no thought of "how it's supposed to be"?
If so, how was it?
If not, then WHY not?!
Anxiously awaiting your answer!!
Well, Sir, that has not worked for many years. A few times I have tried to pull her passionately against me out of the blue, kissing and touching, beginning what I would consider "to ravish". It was ugly; I didn't get very far. She considered it closer to attempted rape than a passionate embrace of a loving husband. On another occasion many years ago I actually got kicked off of her in the middle of intercourse even though we had started with mutual interest. She simply wasn't enjoying it and got pissed. I never understood that one and it hurt like hell for years (not physically). No, my moderate friend, that is not even a remote possibility. That is why I asked if any women would rather be ravished than have the dishes washed. My wife would rather have me was the dishes than have a passionate soul-melding experience. Strange, though, washing the dishes doesn't get me laid any more than not washing the dishes. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
I suspect, from the messages I've read, that most of the women on this site would melt in passionate ecstacies if I did half of the things I do or try to do with my wife.
The conclusion I'm coming to is that I need to figure out a way to lower my libido and need for intimacy (definitely my love language). Maybe I'll take up smoking, I've heard that helps.
