DNQ, if you keep doing things with such love for your W and you continue be as "even" as you are, i.e. you do not react to her actions, positive or negative, you are not going to "screw" up. Yes, she could take it badly but you are doing right by her and your children. I am completely impressed by you.
If she doesn't play nice, that is her problem. She may even do that to "test" you. But you don't have to react to that.
DNQ, wow!
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God