I think it's also great that you realized when you took out the anger at your mom on H plus apologized for it. I know my H does that often, takes anger out on me without realizing he is doing it, never even realizing it, and then never apologizes either. So that is really good. Plus you both communicated well about it, another thing in our R that we didn't (don't) tend to do!!! So I do think that is another good thing!!! Karen
