Chavelle, I have read your post and let me tell you it's just a man not the other man a substitute that she can try to justify herself with. I would suggest that you work on GAL and still continue to love her, stand for your marriage and most important give it to God. He can't work a miracle if you are in the middle you need to give her to God every day. He will take good care of her. Don't listen to other people tell you to move on. You move on when God tells you to. Even in divorce we have a responsibility to our spouses, you will know what's right. Ask God for help everyday and listen he will show you the way. It is not easy, and the outcome may not be what immediately you thought was right, but you will see it will all work out. My sitch is this, 8/06 ILYBNILWY, two weeks later I want a divorce, divorced 8/07 wife in MLC, two girls 12 and 5, married 15 years together 20, like a bolt out of the blue, my counselor says MLC. I am standing, and will stand until God releases me. Treat her with all the respect and love you have for her, don't worry about the OM, be patient and listen, to both your heart and head, it won't be easy. What's easy is just jumping into a relationship to make you feel good. Trust me it won't the pleasure is short lived. And pray, pray, pray.
