While DBing and being cheerful, playful, positive and working on being happy for me...how the heck do I address things that will inevitably bring on tension in the house.
Example: My H left sunday to see OW (well we don't talk about that, but that is where he is) and doesn't really tell me when he is coming home. I don't want to ask because I am trying to give him space but we still live in the same house and have a 4 year old so I kinda need to know what is going on.
Another example: We still have bills and are financially strapped together. We have not legally separated as of yet H has not filed for divorce. How do I approach money subjects without being controlling. One of the problems in our M is that I have always been controlling with the money....so I am not sure how to appraoch these conversations without being the old controlling me....???????
M 37 H 37 Married 2yrs (together 7yrs) Son 4yrs old and H has Daughter 11 yrs old H involved with OW since Jan 08 and still seeing OW Still under same roof, but H spending more time with OW as time goes on
