IMP, You are right I felt so much better I just smiled and said this is the best thing for me that I was sorry but I have to do this for my sanity. Although, I did do a bad thing before he left the house I found his new phone for his calls to OW, and busted in little pieces in front of his face, I told him before not to have it in the house when he came home, oops, Oh well after all I did warn him and he said he wouldn't bring it in. He didn't get mad at me, he said he was sorry.
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M 45 H 42
D 26 D 18 S 16
Married 19 years Together 24 years ILYBNILWY 1/7/08 OW 10/11/07 ended affair 3/14/08 came home 3/14/08 last contacted ow 3/17/08 4/19/08 trying to piece marriage back.