This list is fantastic! This is what I was hoping to glean from your postings but you summarized it all right here. Thank you very much.
Also, I agree w/ your words to Kerry. We have to look at our lives before the separations and decide if that is where we really want to be again. It is painful and so very different to be in our place now, but it has to get better. I can't see how any of us can feel much worse.