Originally Posted By: Chevelle
I just hate the idea, though..that I always will have an unconditional love for this woman...6 billion people in the world, and I harp over one...ironic isnt it?


Yes! I know that all too well...... It is a VERY tough place...

Originally Posted By: Chevelle
I know other women find me attractive and smart and all that...they have told me. I think maybe I hold on to the past W I had. I do agree a little though with your theory on the alien thing...I just think she has an addiction, cause her BF tells me she regrets it after the fact, but then cant fight the urge to stop it.


I think that makes it more difficult when women see these qualities, yet the woman you love and want to be with chooses to ignore them....

What type of addiction? Sex?

Originally Posted By: Chevelle
So, I will RUN from this little charade...she wants to be friends..but RMG, she is losing everyone around her...her family, her kids are slowly despising her, her BF is losing her...and now her fall back always there exH is departing..


I do not think you should be friends... I would make it clear.... We are either together and working on our R or nothing...

That was hard for me... I wanted to show my exW unconditional love.... BUT, I was really concerned about her using me.....

Take Care,

RMG

Last edited by RMG; 03/04/08 07:03 PM.

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