She doesn't WANT to see it. In fact she's actually told me she sees it, but doesn't believe it, or thinks I'm doing it for the wrong reasons (desperate, an act, making her look bad for wanting out...)
Let me help you by translating this into something that you need to understand so that you can see the baby steps happening around you.
When she says what she said, you have to learn to hear "Blah, blah, blah told me she sees it, blah blah blah blah (blah blah blah)."
