I feel like i am detaching but now that you put it that way and I am definately angry with her for the way she treats me, what she will put the family thru if she goes thru with this and how she is never around. She has no time for me at all except when she wants to beat on me, which of course is no fun. Pysch said aviod those times when you are completely alone with her for those are the times she will beat on you and try to get a reaction.
I just talked to the new MC downstairs and she said there is still hope and not to detach to much and re-inforce that i still want this marriage to last forever. She is concerned about W drinking and told me not to drink at all because that can exasperbate (sp) the whole situation. I have hardly had a drink since August for it makes me think to much and I just get tired and fall asleep.
Thanks Bomb. I will watch the anger. The new MC wants me to have a talk with her tonight but that will be hard without having an R talk. I have to be really careful. I want this to work to much and I can not let it be about me it must be about her.
It aint over till it's over.
Any thoughts on what to talk about tonight? How to approach her?
