I have no thread. Right click my name, go to show posts, and just go back a long way....it would essentially be 2005 posts would be my threads.
Kerry,
I know this site is supposed to be "divorce busting" and we are supposed to believe that the grass isn't greener, but sometimes it is in fact greener. I've been married to two women and believe me, I don't regret I'm not married to the 1st one. She has a ton of undesirable traits. I just couldn't be able to manage it. My 2nd wife is a good woman with a lot going for her. When we split up it was different. I didn't have kids with her. But I wanted her back not just because I loved her or wanted what I couldn't have, but because she's got loads of positives going for her. Everyone that walks away and everyone that is the LBS goes through things where they don't seem to be the same person, but still underneath it all have the same pros and cons to wanting to get back together. Is that your wife? How were things in the marriage before she split? Would she be the same if she came back? It's only in retrospect that I'm happy I didn't reconcile with my first wife (although I still hate having to only see my kids part time...that hurts), but I realize what I was chasing after was a dream of a good marriage, not reality.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
