I am done wanting my W back as the person she has become now. If she makes a miraculous turnaround, I may reconsider, but I highly doubt our marriage can be saved
I can unfortunately relate to your comment. I won't take back the woman my W has become either. However, if she is willing to face her fears and faults and work on them, I'd love to have her again.
However, I too am not sure this marriage will survive. That is very, very sad for me and probably is for you too.
