Patience takes work, it is like everything in life worth achieving you have to work on it every moment. I can only tell you that it will come if you work on it.
You can get to this spot if you focus on growth and worry about BT...
Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship
S7 S4
M: 7yrs Bomb: 10/19 Seperated: 10/24
The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce