BobbiJo, MMB, JM - thanks for the support. I am feeling so at ease about getting this D over with.

Here is a little snippet of an email from my brother this morning. It is hard for me to argue against what he says...

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My point is...don't you think your happiness counts for something..? I do. I mean come on already. The middle aged man has suffered long enough.

It seems to me that Nui is a gold digger. No other way to put it. Why you would want that woman back is beyond me.

Marina and I tried a little pro vs con. I came up with 1 pro. She is the mother of your children. I got nothing after that. The cons are so numerous to count..just a few.. she got itchy scratchy...she has anger issues..she is a pack rat..no cooky, no cleany..she is a habitual liar ...a bit of a trust issue with her...I could go on, but you get the point.

Step back a bit and look at this rationally. Having her come back is not in Kerry's best interest. You deserve to be a happy middle aged man!! If your happy...your kids will be happy.