I'm not sure how to go on. . .

[Treese]

leah;

I totally understand...my H is doing the same thing with coming and going in the house as he pleases..making himself something to eat..although it's hard at times, I wanted H to feel that he has a safe place to come...

I agree with you totally on the everyday stuff with the kids, job, baths, sports, etc...yep I do it all also...at times I really feel like throwing in the towel then I remember my goal...

My H too is so "sane" when everyone else is around and yep it makes you feel like you're the one going crazy....H shovels out money, takes the kids to do fun things (when he comes around), plays cards w/son, etc.....then just leaves like nothing is wrong...he has NO responsibility right now...but he is losing...my D21 wants nothing to do with him...she came in to town yesterday on spring break and H called Son and wanted to talk to D...well, she was sooooo snippy with him...I"m sure he is afraid of seeing her face to face...he had told her when he left 5 weeks ago that he would call her more often now...well, you guessed it...he hasn't called her yet...until last night..D21 says she doesn't want to see him...can't blame her and she is an adult...she can make her own decisions...the rest of us though had a good night..we laughed and had fun....H misses out...

I dont' know how he felt after she basically blew him off on the phone but my guess is he felt like crap....her boyfriend comes from a divorced family and he hasn't talked to his dad in 10+ years...

Well, that's it...wanted you to know you're not alone....and maybe we might be married to the same man.....


Treese