Wow, I go away for a couple of days and look at you wonderful folks checking on me. Sigh.
Things are peaceful enough here (we don't really fight anyway). I've gooten angry a couple of times regarding things that H said to D13. Then I took a breath and told him about it. I have explained that communication is more important now than ever and we both need to step up. His plan (for now) is to come and visit D's on Sunday's. I'm fine with that and if it changes (on my end) I'll let him know. I expect the same courtesy from him. We haven't talked finances yet. I said I'd like to do that this week. We'll see how he proceeds D wise. He said (this weekend) that he wouldn't peruse it until I was on my feet. To which I responded, that could be years. He simply said, I know. Ok, then.
D13 is having the most trouble and I intend to have both D's go with me to a C. I want us to be able to communicate well and I think we need some different tools to be able to do that.
After all, my integrity is the one thing that can't be taken from me. I'd have to give that away.
