All the warning signs were there. Previously H had spoken negatively of another psychologist who suddenly was sporting a dark tan, unnaturally dark hair, and white teeth as he was embarking on an affair with the head secretary. (This man and his wife had been social friends of ours in the past.)

Suddenly my H was wearing tweed jackets to work and delightly telling me that several women had told him that they found him to be more handsome and better dressed than the other guy.



Originally Posted By: Sandyof5
So I sit on it ..and watch and wait...

That's a good thing. It's not over until it is over. I just pray I have enough time for his MLC to play its self out.

Originally Posted By: Sandyof5
I do not know the OW or her husband either..only know OF them and know they all work at same company...messy, messy, messy.

Do you have the feeling that his co-workers are aware of the affair? In my case I believe some are even promoting it.


Me: 59
H: 59
Together: 28 years
Married: 25 years in August
"There may be someone else" 12/26/07
H signed a one year lease 4/1/08
H moved out 5/11/08
H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08
Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08