LRT = The Last Resort Technique. It's in the DR book...

I will consider coming over to MLC forum, I'll just see how things go for now. We have a big birthday weekend coming up for her and her mom.

No expectations or hopes for now, the more I push my own agenda, the more it tells her she is doing the right thing by leaving.

Yeah Tree, I know I'll be OK....it's just getting to be a little exhausting.