What a great post Jenny....that is the attitude we all need to have. During the sich its so hard to have it, but people I really do believe it. Look at all the people who were in our sich and now have great relationships with others. Not to say that we shouldn't give our M's every shot, but life will not be over.
I should listen to my own advice...LOL
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!